Scott, Thanks for the quick response. This email wasn't exactly what I wanted to wake up to today.
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He needs help. But I think he needs to help himself at this point. I know that you would like to be there for him. But what good would it do for you to get sucked back into the drama and the roller coaster of emotions that it brings?
He does need to help himself. He is very mixed up. I would like to be there for him...but I have offered to help him through this multiple times in the past and he just couldn't do it. I know it won't do any good to get sucked back in. The reality is hitting about the D....for me but especially for H. He has been living in la la land for 9 months. This is reality...our marriage will be over in 2 weeks.
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Try as best you can not to dwell on this email or seeing him this weekend, it will only drive you crazy.
Easier said than done. I will do as he asks and not respond. He knows how to get ahold of me if he wants to talk or see each other...I'm not chasing, begging, or pleading. If he really has a change of heart and wants to attempt to fix this marriage, he's going to have to do the hard work. I'm worth a lot and I'm not settling for less. If he really wants to change his life, he's got 2 weeks to do something...otherwise it will all be over.
