Me: I asked if she was still going WL: She says she hasnt been as her C said go see my C then come back and see her if she wants to come together or by herself Me: SO I ASKED, So where are you on all that right now, we havnt really talked about it, do you want to go see someone together? W: THE DREADED, I DONT KNOW. Me: Can you tell me what that means?
It is amazing how I still get no response. She did say we will have to talk about this later. NOT GOOD?
I don't think her response is necessarily bad, sometimes "I don't know." means just that. She was probably surprised that you've switched Cs- keeping her surprised is a good thing, IMO. I also agree that it was probably not a good time for her to talk about it, since she was getting the kids to bed. I hope she brings it up to you tonight.
Originally Posted By: CVA
Anyhow, the conversation was not filled with any anomosity or anger or anything, just polite conversation with no commitment to work on it from her.
I think you handled the talk very well, especially considering your emotions over the last few days. Great job! You must be excited to see the kids- enjoy them tonight.
