CVA, What if they keep blaming you for everything? and that is how the R talk starts?

I don't bring it up, she finds some kind of fault with me, and then she is off, bringing up the past, blaming me for the current sitch, all that garbage. Should I just keep quiet, tell her I don't want to talk about it, I try not to defend myself, anymore, or blame her, but the truth is the truth, she is the one who walked away. Like I said I take my blame for my part in the problems in the M, but I refuse to take any blame in the destruction of our family, That one is hers, alone.


My Story: Then
My Story: Now