I'll tell you what's on her mind - OM. What's on my H mind?- OW. He says it's not a question of comparison but I reckon it must be. When H thinks of me I'm sure I represent all the bad things that happened in the past, which were all my fault.(!) OW represents all the wonderful things the future will bring.
It's just that since I've been DBing, he's noticed the changes in me because I'm not behaving in the same old way as I did in the past. I doubt this new perspective is enough to swing him away from OW but it's certainly puzzling him and making him think.
