Pickle In your situation you are probably right to wait. having said that there is never a right time; life and death just keep on happening regardless of our personal grief.
I go with the view that you can't believe anything they say.For example you might hear something that cheers you and makes you feel things are moving on but within hours, sometimes, the position changes. This yo yos with your heart and causes you more pain. So learning to detach is a good way to protect yourself and keep your PMA.
