Try taking all those things you think need to be said once and saving them up. Save them up for two weeks, put them aside for a week, then evaluate them. See which ones really need to be said.
My guess is close to ZERO will need to be said. They are all pursuing and pushing. I can't believe the sex issue came up again. On page one, you told her it wasn't about the sex when she said she felt pressure for sex, and in the same conversation talked about throwing her over your shoulder and ML twice. YES, that is pressure. How welcome would it be if your boss said those things to you? Would it be inappropriate pressure? Unwelcome sexual advances are ALWAYS inappropriate pressure.
Back off, all of it. Back off. There is nothing that "needs" to be said that cannot wait for three weeks -- two weeks saving up, one week cooling off.
