====================================== he's making me feel like I'm crazy. ======================================== First of all, NEVER ever let him make you wrong so he feels right for what he is doing, he needs to excuse his behavior and throw you off.
Don't put your hopes up about any change if you talk to her, it might be even damaging to you, if you decide you must do it by phone. Does sound like MLC, what with his dad dying and the denial. =========== Her H said she's never lied in the past so he's going to give her the benefit of the doubt. ================= Oh yea, and I thought my sweet H would never leave under the cover of the night and have an A.
People carrying on As and in MLC will lie through their teeths, big lies,little lies, it becomes 2nd nature and in the end they can't even remember what they've said about anything (I've sooo BTDT) I even caught evidence my H was seeing the op again and he lied so much and was so convinced i believed him that time.
He prob will say no, but suggest C, if he won't go you go for your own sanity. You might be in for a long ride.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
