Quit pushing your agenda completely and give W the physical and emotional space she has consistently asked for.
There are things that go around these boards. A current one seems to be: "I repeated myself ad nauseum and pushed my own agenda for the nth time. WAS knows what I think, now I will start working on myself." The second sentence is supposed to justify the first. -- IT DOESN'T-- Worse, the pair of sentences gets repeated over and over, day after day, week after week.
Back off. Stay backed off. Give the WAS all the physical and emotional space requested. This means probably 1000% of the space you think you need to give the WAS. Let WAS be the one to change the space.
Look, I think I skimmed a couple of your posts on the first page of this thread and the last page. YOU CONTINUE TO DO THE SAME THINGS. IT IS NOT WORKING. W EVEN TOLD YOU IT WAS PUSHING HER FARTHER AWAY.
Your repetitious self-interested pushing of your own agenda is self-destructive. Period. End of story. Stop it.
