I appreciate all your support and kind words over the past few months. This has been a hellish 10 months and you have helped me stay strong.
The same goes for you. You seem like your an awesome woman and I am glad that I can offer you some support. To be honest if it wasn't for you and some of my close friends validating me I think I would have started to believe in the things that spewed out of my W's mouth.
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You have helped restore some of my faith in men and realize that I am a good person who deserves to find happiness again.
Glad I can help. We are not all gutless pigs, there are actually some great guys out there. You will be happy again. Just remember that you are in charge of your happiness, not your XH or some new man. You are a great woman, that alone is enough to be happy with. You will find someone to share your happiness with again.
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Hope needs a great life after this. This is a huge bump, but I will get over it
I like how you refer to yourself in the third person here. I should of said you are almost at the top of your tortuous climb up Everest, but you will forge ahead and make it to the top. Then you will move past it and on with your life.
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Thanks again. Eventually, I guess I will have to move over to the "Surviving the Big D" forum, but I have become so comfortable over here, I don't really want to leave.
I am in the same boat as you. I lurk over in surviving, but, I do not want to make the jump fulltime at this point. I did not want to come over into the world of infidelity, since you and others have made this a comfortable place.
I hope you are feeling better. Tomorrow is a new day for you to conquer.