Well, I am back from home. It was a nice break from reality. I haven't talked to H since last Thursday. He texted me and said he was going to use the credit card for gas....when he first left I took him off all the credit cards because he was just an authorized user. I debated on just letting him try to use it or call and let him know. I decided since he told me he was going to use it that I would tell him. I just called and said he wasn't going to be able to use the card. He didn't ask why and I didn't offer anymore info.
Currently I am still matching whatever he spends by taking out money for myself. I have accumulated a nice little stash in about two weeks. I will continue to do that as long as I can afford it. We haven't talked anymore about selling the house or getting the car in his name only. I am just not going to bring those things up for now.
He had a counseling appointment today, but I don't know for sure if he went. He did feed the dog and get the mail while I was gone. I am not sure if he knows when I was coming back...so he may be over here in the morning to feed the dog. Who knows. That's about it. This is the longest I have gone without talking to him...even when he was in Iraq. I am trying to be patient. It was much easier when I was away, I find myself already wanting to call him and I have only been back a couple of hours.
