KdK: You are doing this to please him in the hope that he will be interested, but what is it doing to you? If anything, he will lose respect for you.

You will find that if you start to refuse him, he will start to respect you. Tell him you care about him but you need a relationship.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D