I love her more than words can say, I really do. This has just been an up and down thing, a total emotional roller-coaster that I'm sure we've all taken a ride on while we went through this(or are going through it). Right now I feel like I want to work it out, earlier I was just overcome by emotions, it's just really tough.
We've kinda gone through the whole "you leave, no you leave" thing before and it didn't seem to get us anywhere because neither of us felt it necessary to leave. I can't choose for her and she can't choose for me. I haven't let her know that I'm looking for a place yet though because it's not necessary. I haven't fully come to a conclusion about whether or not I'm leaving, I'm just getting prepared for the worst.
But yes, I totally agree she either has to choose her son or this other guy. She can't expect to have custody of him and be taking him out of state every month, away from his father. I'm now transitioning into full Last Resort Technique and I'm just gonna do that all the way and see what happens.
Thanks for all your input everyone and it's especially interesting to hear your side prodigalwife since you were on the other end. But I've gotta head back to work, just on my lunch break. I'll be back when I get off work in about 5 hours.
