sorry not more, agent99. but he's right, there is always hope, if you want there to be. try to concentrate on yourself for a while. park that rollercoaster in the station for a bit and concentrate on something you have real control over. I know that helps me.
Thanks. Time to go dark and move on.
NO NO THAT'S NOT WHAT SHE SAID!!
she's saying "Get a Life", and quit obsessing about him 100% of the time, and it will both help you feel better, and also deal with him better when you are around him
"going dark" is a completely separate thing. Technically, you can do one, both, or neither, of these things.
Last edited by Dom R; 08/14/0708:02 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
