Morgan:

Thanks for the encouragement, but don't paint me a better woman yet. \:\) I still have a long way to go to earn the faith my husband has put in me.

We still talked (usually civilly) because we had a two-year-old son. (We also have a three-month-old boy now too!), but it was strained. We tried to play it off as friends for awhile, we tried for awhile to be cool and distant, we ran the gammit of standoff positions really.

Nothing, including OM was off limits as a topic. My husband wanted to stay fully informed so he could better judge my position and plan his moves accordingly. Heaven help the strategist who goes up against that man! \:\)

The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf.
~Amy C Brown