I didn't ask him, he volunteered. He was the one that wanted to "talk" about what didn't happen, how he is a one woman man, isn't looking to get laid, etc. I did ask "is there someone else that you are trying to be "true" to or you are saving yourself for?" He insists there isnt. I suppose ultimately it doesn't matter since even if there isn't already someone else in the picture, he is paving the road to have someone else.
Sometimes I think this about myself. I see a romantic ending to a movie and I think I could have that fantasy if I did not have a bad man in my life. Then I try to go back to DB mode and remember my H as a good man. It is a roller coaster and you are going along for the ride with him as a team so far. Well done.
Dom- I am so appreciative of your straightforward candor on these forums. I am appreciative that you sound like a sensible, real man who has been to a MC. I know at the core of my H is a sensible person who got lost and can't seem to dig himself out of this pit. I also know that he just wants an easy screw for fun. Whatever. As a chick I can't compartmentalize my life like that. Maybe I cling to the idea of what a mother is and that is my issue. But hearing it from you makes so much sense.
Agent- I am jealous that of your sitch even though it is confusing. I guess Piecing is still a hard place to be!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
