Your not getting what I am driving at. Lets say that your desire for him is based upon his maintaining his physical body. But he maintains his physical body to win your desire (afterall, working out is not much fun). He works out, and works out, and works out, and you still don't desire him. Well, what is the point of working out, maybe he will stay at home and play video games and drink beer and get fat. You have BOTH now set conditions. So now what do you do? Who must act UNCONDTIONALLY?
