Like U, we have both come along way & many more miles 2 go. I think U 2 are definately further along than we are.
I still see my WAH-MLCer drinking every night, having sleep problems, over weight & some mood swings - Dr. Jykle/Mr. Hyde. Plus, still keeps referring 2 his family's apt. as "his place." (AS if that is 2 make me afraid)
Trying 2 stay the course, since he is much better w/child & we are a lot better than where we were last year. Just still cant figure out why the D papers he filled are still open in the court, since I have not been served. Don't have the $$$ to hire a lawyer to inquire & I don't want to wig WAH-MLCer out by me asking someone. Ugh!
Problem I have now is my trust issue. The annivesary date of him walking out on child & I coincides w/the exact same date he & I met years ago. AND the friend/OW's b-day is the day after, w/friends throwing a party on "our date."
As you can all guess, I am having some problems w/that weekend coming up.
Suggestions?
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
