Trying to set those goals!

[Trixi]

PPS: If he's planning to go screw someone else.. he's NOT going to tell you the truth about it. So in some ways, asking him questions of that type, doesnt help, and only encourages him to get in the mindset of lying to you.
When I was talking to an MC about my own situation, he suggested that I not bother asking "Big questions", that I have no reasonable expectation of an honest answer from.
(or for that matter, questions that even if I got an answer for, werent going to help matters any).

I didn't ask him, he volunteered. He was the one that wanted to "talk" about what didn't happen, how he is a one woman man, isn't looking to get laid, etc. I did ask "is there someone else that you are trying to be "true" to or you are saving yourself for?" He insists there isnt. I suppose ultimately it doesn't matter since even if there isn't already someone else in the picture, he is paving the road to have someone else.