Cemar - I'm not sure why but for some reason you got under my skin today. Isn't there, in some ways, ALWAYS conditions for desire? I'll tell you quite honestly, I have conditions YES! If I was not attracted to my H physically, I would not have desire for HIM! If I felt he didn't treat me with respect I would not have Desire for HIM! If he smelled or didn't wash his hair or shave or ?? I would not have desire for HIM! The list goes on..... Aren't these also conditions?? I am pretty sure you probably had a few conditions of your own when you were dating about who you would date based on their looks, hygiene, personalities etc. If while dating, your date was unkept, loudmouth or rude would you have asked her out again or felt DESIRE? If not wouldn't that be conditions or expectations you have of the other? Again if I was just horny I can take care of that, upping testosterone to be horny will not necessarily make me desire my H
Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
