Okay, right oh. I would definately not recommend grovelling, begging, etc. I like a more bold approach. "Hey, I'm surviving just fine H. I'll thrive with or without you. But I really want you, and I need you too." Definately a strong approach, not weak or needy, YUK!
It sounds to me like you've basically given up on any kind of reconciliation. I guess I have a hard time with the quit part. I'm kind of stupid that way. Can't seem to find the brains to quit anything so I keep getting the crap beat out of me. Keep sticking my neck out and getting my head bit off. Strange thing is though, I usually end up with the prize.
Never quit, never give up, never say never, never loose faith. They'll have to kill me to get me to give up. I'll fight till the last breath, bleed my last drop on this battlefield. And they'll scrape my dead body up and throw me in a dumpster before they see me quit.
Amen to the struggle, God bless this fierce battle. One more day, just get us through one more day. Our blessings abound, may we have eyes to see them.
Love you girl!
COG
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