No ESP. My best guy friend's father will be dying very soon (after years of Parkinson's), so it's been on my mind.
Don't underestimate the toll seeing someone through something like that is taking on you; it's difficult even with an acquaintance, and close or not, this is your mom.
The fact that you still have nurturing your marriage and your sexuality as a priority in the face of that ... I imagine that your husband knows he has a keeper, too.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
