Really, I haven't bothered to ask him to stop. He has to come to terms with the fact that it's over too. I won't help him, except to tell him every time he calls with my words and lack of involvement, that the dream is over. I tell my husband when he calls and I keep it brief, but cutting him off entirely would be counter-productive. Constant reality is better than memories with a rosy glow.
The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf. ~Amy C Brown