I am with Faith and I have the same questions. I wonder about the playing a role thing b/c I htink my H is on his best behavior and tell me how long will that last? WHen he has our girls over at OW place he is the perfect dad! No yelling nad yes to all their wishes. Before H would not even let the girls listen to radio Disney while in his car but since OW does let her child then he does too. My H is bipolar and I am waiting for his evil side show up,but this is woman soooooo deperate she might overlook it.