Kettricken Thank you for explaining that so much more elequently than I was able, as I am sure my point did not get across. And I am curious if you have some kind of ESP.
if someone else in our lives is really in trouble or dying,
Because I wasn't going to go there, but I guess it doesn't really matter, but for 6 months I have been taking my mom for cancer treatments. Now, please, I am not looking for any sympathy as my mom and I are not close, but it still takes it's toll on "me" and with out pointing that out that is the kind of external factors that I feel DOES have an impact on desire, fortunatley my H has been pretty understanding.
Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
