chicki, I feel for you. My H did a 180 about 12 weeks ago and the A isn't in my face anymore. He doesn't have much contact with OW, but he has some and I think that his move out would get him back on track as I have not seen any changes in him for the last 6 weeks.

Since we have so many more positives then negative I don't want to stop the progress and making him mad would only push him toward her. Right now he is more incline toward me and working on our M. He has told me that she is not for him and that he does not love her. He just gets off on the high he gets when they are kissing. I can't do that for him anymore, as I am old hat(these are my words not his). I do believe the newness is wearing off as he states that he is no longer in a bubble and that was then and this is now.

I hope you can put your M back together.

Faith


H 48
W 57
M 15 yrs
T 18 yrs
No children
EA 1/12/06
Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07
Back on 5/18/07
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