PS on my prior post: yeah, "sassy" probably is good. like you said.. he asked for it \:D

And the "resentful for 50 years" bit... well, people do get over it. people do have recovered marriages after adultery, after all.
It's just more difficult.
(the ones that do, are the ones who manage to NOT actually be resentful for 50 years, in spite of the damage done)


PPS: If he's planning to go screw someone else.. he's NOT going to tell you the truth about it. So in some ways, asking him questions of that type, doesnt help, and only encourages him to get in the mindset of lying to you.
When I was talking to an MC about my own situation, he suggested that I not bother asking "Big questions", that I have no reasonable expectation of an honest answer from.
(or for that matter, questions that even if I got an answer for, werent going to help matters any).



Last edited by Dom R; 08/14/07 04:55 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle