Something I forgot to add When I asked her to forgive me and she said she does. I told her I don't feel that she has, because she always brings up how I was such an ass to her in ever argument we have. I told her to for me to feel like I have been forgiven then the event or events would not be thrown back at me at every whim or chance she had. I told her I know you are angry at me and you are harboring resentment towards me for the things I had done to you in the past. For me to feel forgiven I need to see that you do not harbor that anger and resentments. She responded "Yes I am angry and maybe I am resentful, let me be angry. People need to be angry." I told her she has all the right to be angry. She deserves to be angry at me, it is justified anger. But, I also told her that in order for us to have a caring relationship as friends (I am not pushing for a marriage relationship right now, I want to start over fresh as friends first and see where it leads from there) that with time, she will have to overcome the anger and resentment that she has towards me.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
