Just found out that OW has a kid!!

[mkultra]

Ugh! Myspace! My H used to make fun that I was the oldest girl on Myspace at 37! It was a joke. I saw in the history that he looked for his OW's myspace. She has not updated in a year and no pics, but it is her alright. Her oldest friend is 18! !18! She is a child and built like a child! 4'11 at 90 lbs, for metrics that is like a 16 year old at best!

One thing about Myspace is that I posted very cute pics of me being a happy mom with my kids at Disneyland. That is who I am and I will be out and about and happy while he is lurking in the shadows leading a half existance.

I am very sorry that your H has the need to care for the wrong person. It makes him feel liek a man, I guess. I am now reading a book called "When Good Men Do Bad Things". It may help you see why he is acting like a complete alien.

I would NEVER condone dating a married man even in the state I am now. My H has left me with two kids and a mortgage so he can play house with an almost homeless street runt punk rocker. Perhaps I would feel tempted to call an ex boyfriend who may now be married to come take his place but no way! Maybe some people are so self centered thay do not care who they hurt because they have been hurt. Although I do not condone destroying a marriage maybe it is up to us here to be the understanding sane ones. It is an immense burden for me but I try to be an friend for my H at his time of a MLC. It really sucks and I may give up soon, but not yet. You need to act like the understanding friend with all your might.