Well my W still plans on moving out. She asked about things she could take with her. I gave no resistance and was very open to what she wanted to take. I didn't expect that she would change her mind based on one conversation. However, I still believe that she is in survival mode and thinks that a D is the answer. I know that actions are what will matter to her but I also am not sure if she has any feelings left in her. She plans on going back to school and I have offered my support. I want her to know that I am not just thinking about me. Perhaps some time apart will give her a new perspective but it means that she needs to see results from me and not just words.
Does any one have thoughts on where she is in her mind(especially you ladies out there)?
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
