Even if your husband broke it off, he is probably still dealing with the afterglow. As stupid and hard as it sounds, if he wants to talk to/see her, try not to stop him. Reality is the best medicine; every time he sees her as she really is it will kill whatever feelings he may still harbor a little more. After I physically ended it with my OM I still had an emotional attachment. But every time he called or tried to see me and tell me how his life is, I saw more of what he really is, and I felt a little less. One day you finally just don't care at all anymore.
The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf. ~Amy C Brown
As stupid and hard as it sounds, if he wants to talk to/see her, try not to stop him. Reality is the best medicine; every time he sees her as she really is it will kill whatever feelings he may still harbor a little more. After I physically ended it with my OM I still had an emotional attachment. But every time he called or tried to see me and tell me how his life is, I saw more of what he really is, and I felt a little less. One day you finally just don't care at all anymore.
