Sorry Ophelia that you are still going through this. I posted on one of your threads months ago when I first started on here. My sitch has taken a turn for the worse (actually I'm starting to think it may be for the better). H and I are currently waiting on finalizing the D.
My only advice is to maybe don't try to figure out so much about what your H is doing. Mine had a myspace page also. I hate it...his profile says that he is in a relationship. He forgot to mention that he is married and in an adulterous relationship. His myspace page is how I found out that he was going to a family reunion with OW at the same time he was talking about coming home once and for all. That was the last straw with me. I put up with more sh$t than anyone deserves and at that point I wanted some effort on his side not lies. I have really cut back on trying to figure out what he is doing, saying, etc. I haven't looked at his myspace page in 2 months. I don't contact him...I only return his calls. I have started to do things for me and only me. I'm done trying with him. If he wants to have another chance with me, he is going to have to rope the moon in the next month before the D is finalized....otherwise, it is over. I really think that your sitch is a lot like mine. You can't control H....you can't control him being with OW or OW's son. You deserve better than this. You deserve to be loved for you...you deserve a faithful husband. You did all you could. You were willing to give your H a second chance...he just wasn't man enough to take it. You can hang your hat on that...better things are in store for you.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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