If this is too personal, just let me know and I'll understand.
I was just curious, you said you were in an affair, how long did it last? (Feb to Aug?) I asked my 'wife', if she feels that she's living in reality or that what she's doing is realistic. (The fact that she plans on taking a $500 trip once per month to see this guy, whether or not he pays for it) She said that she feels it's realistic, though not very cost efficient. She feels that she met him for a reason in this life, like he's really important.
Is that how you felt at that point? What made you realize what was going on? Was there anything that would have helped you see things more clearly while you were in the midst of it all? What would be the best way I could respond to all of this? Like, what would you have wanted/needed your husband to do?
Again, I apologize ahead of time for such personal/invasive questions. I just really respect you and your views since you've been there and probably have a much better understanding than I, of how she's feeling right now. And, just so you know, I really admire how you made the change, that was probably very hard for you as well.
But I'll quit jabbering on, thanks for your time. =)
