What if he's different? Will going dark work?

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Bar & Rollercoaster-
MY post is under PA MLC? Please shed a light. I haven't read the book yet, so I'm just getting aquainted with all this. I tried to read it last night, but couldn't do it. I understand if it is an MLC they have to go through it, and I can see how giving them space would make sense, but how much do you put up with? It feels like your letting yourself be abused by having someone who loves you lie to you, especially if you suspect a PA. I've been reading both your posts. I don't know if I can put myself through this, especially if it can last 2-7 years!!!