N/W/O Hope – I did read your post and in all honesty that is what prompted me to post.
She came home last night with my D12 to go to school orientation this morning. I stayed as upbeat and positive as possible. She even complemented me on my weekend project of rebuilding our brick patio. We still share the same bed and even great each other with a kiss and a kiss goodnight.
I am glad I came across this site – it gives me more hope and belief. I have been having troubles staying focused and motivated at work. From a health perspective I lost 15 pounds (this is a positive) in the last 4 weeks and I am working out at least 4-5 days a week. While early morning workouts are hard – I feel great afterwards. Started to re- read Andrew Matthew’s book “Follow Your Heart” in the last week – I need something to get me motivated and keep me motivated.
A few things that I am struggling with:
Her 40th Birthday – she misses her B, SIL and nephews who recently moved to Switzerland and I was thinking of giving her cash towards a trip.
We need to schedule our joint meeting with the C – I may just schedule it and if she doesn’t want to go I may just go myself.
I am really not looking forward to the next two weekends – we have neighbors coming up to the cottage this weekend and the following weekend she hits the dreaded (her description) 40.
