Thank You for your reply. I don't know if I want to stand by him. I feel like I need to know if there is a PA so I can make that decision. If I hadn't been through what I have already with his substance abuse, I might feel differently. It just makes me sick that he's lying to me and jeopardizing what was for BOTH of us the most sacred thing in the world. I know everyone probably feels this way about their S, but I never in a million years would have thought he would be capable of this. The changes did start happening before his father got sick. If this is an MLC, he's covering it as this new way of thinking and seeing things, so as not to "internalize other peoples problems" and "it's what he needs to do to be his best self". This all started after reading a few books. I said he was taking it to an extreme. Now I'm starting to see the bigger picture. Of course he's making me feel like I'm crazy. I appreciate your advice, but what if I need to know?
ME 31, H 40 M 10 NO KIDS MLC? PA? BOMB 8/22/07 ILYBNILWY WANTS D