I just can't take this anymore, we're both on the lease at our current apartment and she refuses to leave. I think I'm going to look for a place and if she leaves, I'm packing my things and getting out of here. I can't stand being run over like this. I told her how I felt, that I'd appreciate it if she'd come to our family reunion and she said that she didn't feel like she'd be welcomed. I took "her" cell and told her I'd give it back when she paid the de-activation cost of $230 because here she is planning another $400-$500 trip before even covering the cost of the cell I got her.
I hate to say it, but it has gotten to the point where I don't care anymore. I don't know what I'm fighting for. The nicer I am and the more I support her actions, the more she talks to him and takes advantage of me. I can't keep supporting her financially like this and making it easy for her. If she wants him, she can have him for all I care, but I'm not going to be her 'sugar daddy' or 'door mat' in the meantime.