Hi! I was afraid that my GALing would drive H to leave home, but he's still here. It's very uncomfortable because he 'visits' OW quite often and now I'm wondering whether or not to tell him to leave. He's 58 so that may be too old for a MLC. However he's almost unrecognisable now and wants to travel, do music festivals, sing in public. He's not bother about our home/lifestlyle and has found himself in some alternative beliefs. Quite a lot for me to tackle.
Leave your H alone; that will not be the reason he ends things. Work on yourself to become the attractive, independent woman you are. Then he might see what he will be missing.
