Its in God's hands now so I have to put my Faith and Trust in him. In the past, we did try marriage counseling on 3 separate occassion but she would only go once, that't it, and I had to continue. She admitted in the past that she does not like to hear constructive criticism.
Even in the Bible, the Old Testament, I think in the book of Psalms or Wisdom, it says that a wise person can accept the truth and learn from it if they are being corrected. Only a fool and a proud person will not accept this. It doesn't say this exactly, I can't remember which verse, but it does say something like that along these lines.
So I continue to pray for my wife and her family who hate me. I will not loose my soul for them by hating them too. Besides, hate and staying angry like they are takes up too much energy and proves futile.
