Based on all kinds of things The things I was thinking of were things we (both H and I) do not always have control of. Cemar!!! I am here , honestly TRYING very hard to keep my desire equal or higher than my H's. And while I find you challenging I also am starting to think your wife will NEVER meet your expectations because with all your reading you have set the bar way to high for her & if I were married to you I would give up because I would feel no matter what I will not meet your expectations. What is it you want???? Is she to desire you every minute of every day? Are you looking to be on a pedestal, some god she worships and never gets enough of? I don't think that is realistic.
Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
