Sounds like his affair may be dying a natural death which is so predicatble. Why do they even bother? What will be your plan next? What would you like to happen next?
I don't know if the affair is dying a natural death or not. It's been going on for 10 months now, and they have been living together for 7. A lot of H's family has met OW and no one seems to care for her. The strange thing is that H has a very low tolerance for people, and she is one of these people who knows everything and if she hasn't done it one of her family or friends have...someone that just rubs people the wrong way and then to top it off, she's living with a married man...sounds like a winner, doesn't she? Honestly, I don't know how they made it this far. He has been saying that he took it too far since December...but he just keeps taking it farther. He should have stepped back then and got the hell away from OW, maybe he would have started to think straight. It's too late for us. He's not man enough to make things right with me. I can tell he misses me...but he's made his choice and he will live the rest of his life with regret.
I have signed all the D forms, so as far as I know we are just waiting on a court date. We agreed on everything, so this should be a quick, simple D. I am guessing a month, two max and it will all be over. I am going to keep working on being the best person that I can, focusing on my career, and starting to date casually once the D is finalized...at least that's my plan for now.
