N, you have a Plan (still). You are STILL in control of your life. I really liked Donna's dance analogy (on your locked thread). You don't NEED a dance partner; you don't need this particular dance partner. In fact, the way things stand, I think W would be much like Dena who, at closer look, didn't really measure up to your talents.

Believe. Things happen for a reason.

This is surely a bigger picture here.

Thinking of you still,
j

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Me: 45 - WAH: 36
S8; D6
M: 11 yrs 07/06
Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07
To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D