yes, H and I are home together doing very well, we go to marriage counseling once a week. I never could have imagined things would have turned out this way. My H left and literally did not turn back. I thought I was getting a D for sure. As far as the beach Vacation...don't say a word to him about it. If he is not going to go let him tell you...do not put any ideas in his head at all!! Don't worry about his temp living arrangement right now. It is something that you can't control and currently it should not be an issue. Let that go, your mind has enough to worry about, As far as the feeling that you are letting him walk all over you...I remember that well!! I always wanted to yell at him and say "how dare you..." but I bit my tongue over and over again, I vented here and to my friends and family. My H was very rotten to me during our separation and I let him think it didn't phase me at all. Since we have been back together he said it drove him crazy that I seemed so unaffected by him. That is DB at its best!! Keep up the As IF...yes it is hard but if he interacts with you differently then it must work! Hang in there.
