My guess, OW did some pushing and H was stressed. He blew up on you because he didn't know what to do. Like someone who is trying to quit drugs but took that one puff and got caught. So he blew up on you.
I think you are right. H went to ow house to "help her" with something. Now that she's divorced, she "needs" him. And, yes.. he got caught. I'm sure he never expected that to happen.
Originally Posted By: ourcrisis
It does sound odd that he said you two are not working on M when your posts sounds to me that both of you ARE working on M. Do you think this is just "one of those things H says in the heat of the argument"? Did he elaborate any?
We really weren't working on our M except that we were spending a lot of time together recently. But, he has never said that he is committed to working on us and we quit mc a long time ago per his request. It did feel like things were starting to move in the right direction.. Not just out of his guilt but actually I felt like his feelings were changing. Then, he pulls this crap.
Maybe it was just an unloading of venom because he got caught. I don't know. I'm so angry right now
