(((HUGS))) I'm so sorry things didn't go well. and yeah, I get the sarcasm, but its something my friend has sworn me off of, at least to H. very hard to do, but every barb drives him further away. imagine what he would have said if you had just done a complete 180? just smiled and said, oh? or something, instead. he would have gotten to the ridiculousness of not wanting to be attracted to his wife on his own....eventually.
and no, you don't have to consider him a hero...you know he's being a world class ass. but you can smile and nod and realize that the idiot doesn't know it himself.
just a thought. but trust me, initially I would have said the same thing...have lots of instances in the past few months, especially early on, where I did. but it actually feels better now that I've stopped.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
