I was the unfaithful wife, and you may all berate me as you wish. I do not deny my stupidity, but at least I recovered. Now I want to help someone else, anyone who wants my take on their situation. You may hate the OW/OM/WAW/WAH, but it can help a lot to know what's really going on with them. I've checked out a few threads, but please drop me a line if you'd like me to view yours.
My situation as it was:
Married H straight out of highschool, one son within first year. Lived as swingers for awhile, but H hated it and asked me to stop. I never did. In February of 2006 he was away for a month for training and I met the OM. For almost a year I played the games we all do in an affair, thought I was divorcing my husband to marry OM. I got pregnant with my second son in August of '06 and left my H. Hit rock bottom, did some emotional sobering up and finally saw the affair for the illusion it was. my amazing H and I are rebuilding and the OM has no further hold on me. When he calls I very nearly pity him for trying to lure me back...I don't burn myself twice.
The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf. ~Amy C Brown
