Just found out that OW has a kid!!

[Ophelia]

The myspace comment absolutely was low. But people having affairs aren't exactly thoughtful, are they? I wasn't. I never thought or cared what it would do to my husband when I started treating my OM like my son's father, or his daughter like my own. it's all part of the fantasy you live in during an affair. That doesn't make it right! But when you're in that fantasy you NEED it to be completely real (or your common sense will start eating away at it!), so you fully immerse yourself in it. Sometimes the scene has to play itself all the way out, but sooner or later, the fairytale gets revealed as the bogus crap it really is.

Thanks for your post, prodigalwife. I know, he's gotta convince himself, and everyone around him that it's real and that he's not doing anything wrong. Of course, there's no mention of him ever having been M on his myspace.

OW must be just as messed up as H is if she's letting her kid get stuck in the middle of this R.

I really hope the fairytale does start to end for them at some point, though they've been together for quite some time now, I don't know how long, but at a best guess since mid-Nov last year, (about a month after he moved out). Often it feels like it really will never end.