The myspace comment absolutely was low. But people having affairs aren't exactly thoughtful, are they? I wasn't. I never thought or cared what it would do to my husband when I started treating my OM like my son's father, or his daughter like my own. it's all part of the fantasy you live in during an affair. That doesn't make it right! But when you're in that fantasy you NEED it to be completely real (or your common sense will start eating away at it!), so you fully immerse yourself in it. Sometimes the scene has to play itself all the way out, but sooner or later, the fairytale gets revealed as the bogus crap it really is.
The grass may be greener, but then again, it may also be astroturf. ~Amy C Brown
