There is definitely hopein your sitch. You are DBing very well. She is really in LaLa Land. I don't know what this guy represents to her, but it is not reality, just fantasy. I agree with Cat. It will fizzle out but jeez, at what cost? Sometimes people get all hormonal after having a baby and while nursing. I dunno. Sometimes not. She sounds like she has issues she needs to work through with a trusted friend or therapist. Keep DBing. You will not regret all the hard work you have invested in your future lives!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."