Hopeless, you are a gal who is super cool! I wish I could be so cool when my H calls. I always fall apart and get honest. I also feel that I cannot "cheat" while we are married. Even our MC said that separation means different things to spouses so we should notget involved with otherpeople as it would be too confusing and heartbreaking. OK he was all ready to sleep around from the moment I suggested he leave.

His MLC means ruinng his reputation for life.

Our MLC means getting healthier, reading more, soul searching, setting up priorities. Chicks rule. No offense to any loyal Hs out there.

Sounds like his affair may be dying a natural death which is so predicatble. Why do they even bother? What will be your plan next? What would you like to happen next?


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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