Things seem to be happening here. w initiates talking to me about daily stuff a little. she offered for me to stay in bed after misshap last night to throw d11 off. I declined and said i wanted to return when she was ready to recommit, and didnt want to intrude on her space. Some friends of ours stayed in seperate bdrooms for a while and it was a moment when she asked him to join her back in their room.
She brought up om wants to come to MN over Labor Day. I told her i'm tired of the summer being about her. I want to go camping. I don't want to go with you, I want to go with w thats commited to me. Overall she doesnt want to hurt anybodys feelings. After a civil talk i told her we cant do it on our own we need mc to help work through our issues. She said that staying with me would be easy way out. I said it wont be easy, I see alot of hard work. She is so torn and i feel it could still go either way.
She talked herself out of letting him come, guilt of leading him on, couldnt lie to d20 again. I know that could change. She is torn.
